Eagles and Graduation

Eagles and Graduation:
A Tribute to our Seniors and Their Parents

I found out an very interesting fact about America's bird.

The fact pertains to how eagle mothers build their nests.

Eagles and nests... 'what's up?' you might ask.

With graduation fast approaching, bear with me.

Those who have studied the eagle found that

the "expecting" mother eagle begins building her nest

with all kinds of prickly and sharp things:

Briars,

Jagged sticks, and other sharp objects.

These pointed and prickly objects are laid down first.

Next, the mother eagle fills this foreboding place

with the softest things she can find.  

Articles like wool, Feathers, and fur from her kills.

This changes the nest into a place that is not only desirable,

but also inviting.

Here the babies grow in a very comfortable environment.

At the proper time, the mother reverses the process.

She begins to stir up the nest exposing the sharp items

with which the nest began.

She throws the wool, feathers and fur to the wind.

Thereby making the nest not so friendly a place to be.  

After a short period of time, the babies,

now mature enough to leave,

cannot stand the discomfort of the nest any longer-

Simply wanting to be anywhere else.

This is the mother's way of forcing her babies to maturity.

She knows that if they do not get out on their own,

experiencing life, and learning to feed and care for themselves,

they will have no future.

With this thought I sympathize, empathize and admire

the parents of this year's seniors.

May our babies sore to their highest potential.

Congrats Seniors and Take Care,

Coach Curley

GRADUATION

G o for it.

R each for the stars.

A ccept compliments.

D are all your dreams.

U ncover new talents.

A nticipate great things.

T ake chances along the way.

I magine the possibilities.

O pen new doors.

N ever stop believing.

The Derby and Momentum

The Derby and Momentum

I grew up in Louisville, Kentucky.
Having only visited on occasion since I left for college in 1982
I never took notice of the many majestic hills.

I had the chance to visit the ole' stomping grounds last weekend for the Kentucky Derby: the most exciting two minutes in sport.

While visiting I ventured out with my wife, an excellent runner,
and my sister, a triatlete that has twice competed in the Hawaiian Ironman.

Each morning prior to the day's activities  
We took off with no direction or milege in mind.
Quickly, I realized that walking in my childhood home town
has its ups and downs, literally.

During the 45 minute excursions I found myself acutely aware of any horizontal plane. 
The only consistent flat surfaces I spied
was the water at the lake, and my sister's flat-feet as
she pointed out specific landmarks and historical homes.

15 minutes into our journeys, I looked forward to every downhill.
Each one giving me a little extra push as I encountered the next uphill.
I liken that feeling to the way a 18-wheeler must feel
traveling through Colorado or parts of Tennessee.
Speed ever increasing on the downhill, and maintaining
that speed partway up the next hill.

It's called momentum.
I think life is like that.
The more momentum one builds, the farther you'll go.
And the easier it will be when the uphills come along.

I ask you, are you climbing that next uphill
from a dead standstill?
Or are you building momentum?

Take Care,
Coach Curley

Enthusiasm

Enthusiasm

"It" means living life with passion and zeal.

From what I understand the word

originated from the Greek adjective "enthous,"

which means, "possessed or inspired by God.

"It" was evident the weekend of April 26-28th.

570 athletes visited our pool.

I saw "it" in their eyes.

We had 60 or more volunteers:  Officials, Timers, Computer Operators. 

I observed "it"  for hours on end.

And we had 6 coaches bust their tails preparing,

conducting, and tiding up afterward.

I both witnessed and participated in “it”.

The weekend wasn't easy, but nothing worth doing ever is.

I truly believe “it” is one of the most

powerful engines of success.

And I trust close to 1000 lives are better

from what occurred this past weekend.

Relationships were forged,

Lessons were learned,

Teams were built,

all stemming from the spirit of “it”.

As Emerson once wrote ”nothing great was ever

achieved without enthusiasm."

“It”/Enthusiasm equals greatness.

Take Care and Thanks,

Coach Curley

As Free as the Air

The best things in life are free.

 Ever remember saying that?

And it’s still true:

 A walk in the park -

as long as it’s not a Disney Park!

A good book on loan from the library -

as long as you return it on time.

And of course AIR.

Wait a moment!

Not entirely true.

Especially if you want to put some of that air in your car tires!

The other day I noticed my 17 year old's "ride" had a tire

that looked a little low.
Deciding to do him a favor, I took the second set of keys for the old 1990 Ford Ranger

and drove up to the corner.

Did you know: It’s now a dollar a pop!  For Air!

Even more, if you haven’t taken off all the little valve caps,

tested to determine which tires need air, exactly how much,

and put on your running shoes before you drop your coins in.

Dale Earnhardt, Jr’s pit crew can do it in the allotted time.

The rest of us - well, 6-8 quarters ought to do it.

Air’s still free - sort of.

Are you taking anything - or anyone - for granted?

Take Care,

Coach Curley

Glove Box or Glove Compartment?

Glove Box or Glove Compartment?

I believe every car has one:

that little compartment on the front passenger’s side of the dashboard.

By name alone, I trust it’s designed to store gloves.

Driving gloves.

Winter gloves, especially lately here in Florida.

Baseball gloves.

(No, not really.)

The other day, stuck at a railroad crossing,

I decided to clean out my glove compartment.

Here’s what I found:

The car owner’s manual and service record, a couple old google maps, three or four receipts, a pencil, a pen, a month-old-Sunday church bulletin, a cell phone owner’s manual (I don’t even have the phone anymore), and a plastic something or other that I can’t even identify.

Here’s what I did not find:  Gloves!

Until very recently, I used the word “floppy” to describe

that device on which you store computer data.

After being somewhat chastised by my 13 year old son...

and following my 8 minute wait at the railroad crossing,

It appeared to me that I needed to update my lingo… computer and otherwise.

First update:  call the compartment located in my car by its correct name:

a “Stuff Place.”

Got to keep up with the times!

How about you?

Got any “stuff places” that need renaming?

Take Care,

Coach Curley

 

Billboards and Bumper Stickers

Traveling the Long and Winding Road

Car bumpers can yield a lot of wisdom if we simply pay attention.
Now it seems, billboards have gotten into the act!

I spent approximately 20 hours in the car this Spring Break.
Those interstates can get a wee bit monotonous if you let them.
I did not.
Since I had to focus on keeping the car between the navigational beacons;
I missed some of the most profound billboards and bumper stickers.
But much to my happiness my 13 year old occasionally took a break from his ipad; taking in the 1200 plus miles of literary scenery as well.

One of several I missed and he was kind enough to share,  
"Wherever I go, there I am."
Simple, yet insightful.

This I-95 billboard brought out some pretty philosophical queries
from my seventh grader.
Of course this got me thinking...

When I don't like something about myself,
I can't just go somewhere else,
because it, and me, will be there.

This suggests to me that we alone have to deal with who we are.
If there's something we don't like,
only two options are available:
accept it or change it.

I ask:
Do you find the you, that you like, wherever you go?

Take Care,
Coach Curley

WHAT in the WORLD AM I DOING?

Here is the typical life - typical, though not everybody does it this way.

But for the most part, lives generally go something like this:

Born

Eat and sleep

Play with toys

Go to school

Play little league, hopefully a swim team as well…

Go to school

Learn to drive

Date

Go to school

Leave high school

Go to more school

Date some more

Get a job

Get married

Buy a house

Have kids

Watch your kids eat, sleep, play and go to school

Work, work, and work

Retire

Die

That’s the basic life, isn’t it?

Please don’t email me.

I know there is more to it, but that is about it for some folks.

What I believe sets the thriving apart is that they don’t just live the average life.

They don’t just pass time.

They have something compelling in their life that drives them - something 
that gives them an answer when they are asked that question:  
What in the world are you doing?

• I’m helping children.

• I’m creating a business that supports many families.

• I lead a church.

• I am defending our liberties.

• I am raising great children.

• I’m teaching others to improve their lives.

• I help people have fun.

• I create memories for people.

In other words, flourishing people always come down to this: 
I help other people by (fill in your purpose here).

What in the world am I doing?

I believe if you want to be successful, you need to be able to answer that by describing how you help others.

Because if you aren’t helping others - if you aren’t making a difference – you’re just taking up space, eating food, and waiting to pass.

Here’s the question for all of us to answer this week:  What in the world are we doing?

If you know, then you are good to go - live it and make a difference!

If you don’t know, then maybe you need to give some reflection on what you are doing,

what your life is about,

and how you can burst out of the mundane bubble you live in!

After all, don’t you want to know what in the world you are doing here?

Take Care,

+Coach Curley